Unique Ways to Honor Deceased Loved Ones at Your Wedding

Not all couples who create their wedding guest lists can invite all the people they’d like to. It’s when big milestones such as a wedding occur that you realize how empty life is without your deceased loved ones.

Fortunately, there are still ways you can include these loved ones in your wedding day. However, whether or not you should depends on your relationship with the person and how long ago they passed. If they passed recently, the reminder at your wedding might be too raw and sensitive. 

If you feel it would be welcomed and appreciated though, here are a few unique ideas you can use:

Purchase a photo locket. Attaching a photo locket to your bouquet or boutonniere is a subtle but special way to have a deceased loved one at your wedding.

Wear something that belonged to them. This could be anything from a hat to a tie or pocket watch. Wearing something that belonged to your loved one can make you feel closer to them on your big day.

Reserve a seat for them. Since your loved one would’ve been sitting at your wedding ceremony in a beautiful outdoor wedding venue in Statesville NC, why not reserve a seat for them and place a photo or something personal on the chair.

Light a candle during the ceremony. To honor those who are there in spirit, light a memorial candle with your partner at some point during the ceremony.

Use their favorite song. If your loved one had a particular song they always played, use it during the processional or recessional as a way to include them in the ceremony. You could even dance to the song during your reception.

Create a photo display. If more than one person has passed, create a photo display that you can add to the reception room.

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Incorporate their favorites. Is there something your deceased friend or family member loved to do? Find a way to incorporate that activity into your wedding. This could even be a specific drink or type of food. 

These are all small, yet meaningful ways to make sure your loved ones are still present on one of the most important days of your life. 

For more wedding ideas, find out How Many Hours Do You Really Need to Book a Wedding Photographer For?, see Wedding Photography Style, and get ideas for Post-Marriage 101: Things to Do After Your Wedding Day.

Blessings,

Christi